Friday, April 17, 2015
Discernment Weekend (NYC) Salesian Lay Missioners from The Day's End on Vimeo.
Dear Friends and Family,
We just returned from our initial trip to NYC for our Discernment Weekend with the Salesians. The trip was designed to learn more about their organization, the work of the Salesians, and to confirm our and their interests in missionary life and work.
The trip was wonderful. The Salesians were just what we thought and more. Both Liz and I match well with the organization and their spirituality. The next step for us is to continue to purge our possessions, get all our responsibilities in order, assist Mackenzie to prepare to leave for college in August, and prepare for our next trip to NYC.
Our next trip will be July 23- August 15th. During this trip we will learn more about cross cultural relationships, service work, missionary life, community living, and mentally prepare for mission. After the training we will return home for 2 weeks to say good-bye to our friends and parishioners and then depart for mission.
We are so excited for this opportunity and also for all of you who have supported us financially and spiritually. It is through you and your efforts that we are able to follow our call.
Sunday, April 05, 2015
Friday, April 03, 2015
Sunday, March 29, 2015
Our first (1 of 2) planned visits to New York City is almost here.
We will travel to the Salesian International Headquarters located in New Rochelle, April 9-13, 2015, for a discernment / training retreat.
Liz and I are so excited to finally meet to Salesian team and some of the other missionaries that are planning to also leave this summer on mission. Some of the missionaries will travel to South America, others to Cambodia, Democratic Republic of Congo, Ethiopia, Malawi, South Sudan, and Vietnam
To save money we booked a red-eye flight so we will fly all night and end up in NYC in the early morning, (Pray we get some sleep or Friday will be a really long day! :)
When we arrive in New York:
- We will catch a shuttle
- Then hop on the subway to Grand Central Station
- Then transfer onto a commuter train to arrive in New Rochelle
- Then catch a taxi to the retreat site.
We are packing very light, one medium rucksack each so we can travel light and easy.
One of the highlights of the trip will be when the retreat has ended and we get the opportunity to spend Sunday evening and night with the C.F.R.'s
After meeting Father Anthony recently he invited us to stay in their guest room if ever in town. Well, we will be in town and we also need a place to stay for the night, so what a perfect opportunity.
We will post another update and pictures when we return.
Thanks to everyone who donated and supported us allowing us to attend this mandatory preparation retreat. Without your help our mission would not be possible. :)
Friday, March 06, 2015
Third Sunday of Lent – Year B
It’s common to think of Jesus as a gentle and peace-loving man, but in today’s gospel we also see a different side of him. We see him make a whip out of cords, over-turn tables throwing coins everywhere, and attempting to drive evil-doers out of the temple area. Surely many were shocked by what they saw and witnessed…. but was there a point to his actions?
Do you think the merchants in the temple area thought of themselves as “evil-doers”? Probably not! Do you think there were always merchants in the temple area? No, probably not. I would assume that one day a man set-up shop, and entrepreneur, and then another, then another, and overtime a large market developed. There might have been some initial dissatisfaction over the selling of goods in the temple area, but overtime the gradual process of adding more and more merchants probably went unnoticed and after a few years it not only became normal but was expected.
Can you begin to see some similarity between this example and what has happened in our society? Just the other day I was visiting with a man who described a recent event that left him troubled. He told me that more than 10 years ago he removed the television from his home because he and his wife were fearful of what was being shown, fearful of the influential power of TV, and fearful of how it could negatively affect them and their children. He stated that since that time, 10 years ago, he hadn’t really seen much Television.
He then informed me that he had recently returned from a family visit in which he watched a variety of TV shows with his relatives. He reported that he was shocked at what appeared to be in almost every show: varying levels of nudeness, pre-marital sex, same sex relationships, affairs, and ramped immorality. And what bothered him the most was that his relatives, who he believed were good Catholics, who attended mass every week, who adhered to all the catholic rules, and who also saw nothing wrong with the content of the shows.
He stated that in response to his relative’s apparent non-reaction, He initially questioned himself? Is Pre-Marital sex ok? Is looking at Naked and Half-Naked people ok? Is having an Affair ok?
Then he stated that he snapped out of it, recalling that all those behaviors were not only wrong, but actually sinful…. and that they ultimately separated people from God. He realized that his relatives had become “Desensitized”! Might I ask, How many of us have also been desensitized through a gradual process, and now find little to no objection to what is so prevalent in society?
If Jesus were here today, do you think he would find our current culture Acceptable? Holy? And Just? I don’t think so, at least not much of it. As we begin to look at the world around us through Christ’s eyes, we begin to see a much different world. We can begin to see how certain behaviors and attitudes have evolved and have led many away from God and his ways.
Yet, it is more than just being desensitized that has caused this problem, we are still missing something important. I recall a story of a priest who was coming back to his parish house one evening in the dark only to be accosted by a robber who pulled a gun at him and demanded, “Your money or your life!” As the priest reached his hand into his coat pocket the robber saw his Roman collar and said, “You’re a priest? You can go.” The priest was rather surprised at this unexpected show of piety and so tried to reciprocate by offering the robber his pack of cigarettes, to which the robber replied, “No, Father, I don’t smoke during Lent.” On the surface this sounds like a funny joke, but can you see how this robber is trying to keep the pious observance of not smoking during Lent while forgetting the more fundamental commandment of God, “Thou shalt not steal.” He is acting but not understanding the why of the action.
Maybe we are doing the same in our own lives, at least on some level.
Recently Pope Francis said that we are to ensure that on Fridays we aren’t avoiding meat to only feast and gorge ourselves on seafood. If so, what sacrifice would that be?
Our actions and behaviors as Catholics are to have a deeper meaning, and it is that meaning that is always more important than the action. Our lives are to have that deeper meaning also, the meaning that originates our actions, and that meaning that sustains us through difficult times, trying times, and through temptations.
As Catholics we should know the meaning of life, our unique meaning. Is it clear what that meaning is in your life? Is that meaning actually the thing that directs your actions, or are your actions just something you do, a pious gesture? These are good and important questions that we need to ask of ourselves.
This time of Lent is a time to slow down, quiet down, and to seriously reflect upon our lives and upon our true meaning and purpose here on earth. It is a time to identify our shortcomings, our inequities, to repent, to turn away from sin, to reunite ourselves to Christ, and to prepare ourselves in a special and meaningful way for the coming of Lord and Savior.
Take some time today and prayerfully ask God to open your hearts and minds, to allow you the ability to see where change is needed, and for God to help you in humble way to understand your true meaning in life.
Praise be Jesus Christ, Now and Forever.